“Offer the lazy an egg, and they'll want you to peel it for them” Lithuanian Proverb

That quote just sums up my husband, I love him dearly but shit, get off your ass and do something. I really do understand being tired after work, but you have to DO SOMETHING at work to get tired. I guess what I am tired of is being a god dam slave. I do all the cooking, 3 meals a day sometimes. All the cleaning and laundry. And all the baby care. I bathe, feed, change, clean, play, and deal with him at nights, so well everything for the baby I need a break, and I'm not just talking a trip to the store to refresh, I need at least a day...alone...with out kids or a husband. It is getting to the point that I am going a little insane, and getting depressed again. Money is tight and we are looking for a new place to live as well as I am looking forward to going back to work. He needs to find a new job as well. He thinks his little refusals to do things is cute but when I bite back he gets an attitude, like I never do anything. He doesn't realise that I don't just sit on my ass and watch TV all day. I bake bread, and make baby food, freeze our harvest and prepare dinner. I am so tired of everything. Sometimes when I am able to go somewhere alone, I feel like I just want to run away, drive off and never comeback. But then I realize that I cant do that. I just keep thinking that things will go back to the way they were when I worked. He helped out more, maybe its to late for him to revert back to the helpful man I married. I guess I wont know till I do go back to work, but things just cant continue like this, its driving me nuts and making me so frustrated. I don't know if he thinks its cute to act lazy or if he has just gotten so spoiled to me being home. But the shit has got to stop. I'm done, I cant take anymore, I am not a slave, or a maid. Just help out, just pick up after yourself. No its not cute to leave trash on top or next to the trash can. No its not cute having our son get you every glass of lemonade or bus the table after dinner. He is not your servant either. All I can say is get off your ass and stop being SO lazy, we are not here to serve you...