Saturday, October 10, 2009

"We spend the first twelve months of our children's lives teaching them to walk and talk and the next twelve telling them to sit down and shut up.”


This quote should be written on my first born's forehead. It is his personal aphorism. He is forever talking and getting in trouble. Its not so much all the talking , its the talking for no reason and with no thought behind it. If my husband and I could just get him to think before speaking he would be a wonderful leader for his peers. I could really envision him in politics or as a lawyer, he could really be something. My first born is also going through a lazy faze that is causing him to not excel in school. He brought home a progress report that was not acceptable. I asked him a question..."How do you get a "D" on an open book test?" he replied that he didn't use his book, sometimes I just wonder... I swear the boy has no common sense, to the extreme that I worry about him. How am I supposed to keep him on the right path in school, keep his grades A's and B's, and steer him toward college? I want so much more for him than this. I don't want him to struggle, I want him to live the American dream to the fullest. Lets just hope that this stage is just a phase and he will outgrow it. I am sure that the baby will give us a challenge of his own at some point down the line...isn't that what parenting is about?

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